can't/never let go (of)
舍不得
--Chancellor Dong, Lv Bu is your right-hand man in the battlefield while Diao Chan is nothing but a temptress in your harem, which should weigh more in your heart?
董公,吕布乃公战场厮杀之心腹猛将,貂蝉不过一粉黛尤物,两者孰轻孰重耶?
--Can you let go of your concubine and give her to other people? Shut up or your head will roll!
汝之小妾,肯轻舍与人乎?再勿多言,言则必斩!